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Clean water crisis. Human-Trafficking. Immigration. Orphan care. Affordable Housing. Failing Education Systems. Gun Violence. Teen-age pregnancy.<\/p>\n

Sitting in this hip coffee shop I can hear twenty-somethings all around me talking about what\u2019s wrong with humanity and how they aim to fix it. Millennials are raising the bar for the rest of us. They\u2019re hyper-aware of societies ailments and far more actively involved in finding solutions than previous generations.<\/p>\n

Yet increased awareness presents a serious problem that\u2019s pervasive in \u201cwoke\u201d people of ALL ages: It has become the \u201cin\u201d thing to do. Buying TOMS shoes, a week at an orphanage in Central America, sending bottled water to Flint, Michigan, and filling food baskets at Thanksgiving \u2013 all such Facebook-worthy ways of serving Jesus. I can\u2019t even count the times I\u2019ve seen a Facebook or Insta post with a white, middle-class high-schooler\/college kid surrounded by raggedy-clothed, dirty-faced black\/Asian\/Indian\/Hispanic orphans from their recent short-term \u201cmissions\u201d trip abroad.<\/p>\n

But if we engage in something that\u2019s uber trendy, we must stop and ask ourselves: What\u2019s my motive?<\/p>\n

Write a check. Angel tree. Annual service day at a soup kitchen. Donate clothes. \u201cLike\u201d all the posts by the latest hip justice organization. Put said organization\u2019s sticker on our computer. Run a 5k for awareness. GoFundMe pages. Youth groups spending a day in the inner city. Wear a trendy justice t-shirt. Carry a cool mug inscribed #endhumantrafficking.<\/p>\n

And why? Why is there such a BOOM in this movement?<\/p>\n

I\u2019d like to suggest we\u2019re crazy about this movement of increasing awareness because it\u2019s easy.<\/p>\n

Easy. Appealing. Quick. Non-habit forming. No sacrifice.<\/em><\/p>\n

One could even say these approaches to following the way of Jesus are somewhat \u201csexy\u201d: We are seen. We are heard. We look good and feel good with our \u201cservice\u201d. Others think we\u2019re incredible. Sexy, right?<\/strong> In fact, we could post any of those hot service opportunities on Valentine\u2019s day with #mytruelove and everyone will think we\u2019re holy.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not bashing those experiences or remotely suggesting they be stopped. I most definitely feel there is<\/em> a place and a time for such things. The problem, as I see it, is that we (Christians) are mostly looking for a quick, non-painful way to appease our Jesus-driven consciences and we\u2019re much too quick to flaunt it for our own acclaim.
We Christians are FAR less likely to do the long, hard, costly, sacrificial and unnoticeable work that is the backbone of the Christian calling.<\/p>\n

But Jesus said:
\u201cEnter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.\u201d\u00a0<\/em>Matthew 7:13-14<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He straight-up told us: It ain\u2019t supposed to be easy, friends!!!
Jesus did all kinds of hard, subversive, and not very Facebook worthy things. He hung out with those marginalized by society. He touched people that nobody else would touch. He shared meals with those no one else would. He went to places nobody else would go. Jesus didn\u2019t do sexy things.<\/p>\n

If Jesus had a Facebook page, we\u2019d probably scroll right through his posts. It is THAT mundane. THAT uncomfortable. THAT un-sexy.<\/p>\n

To go all-in for Christ will most likely lead you to hard, toilsome work with basically no recognition. It\u2019ll be costly and time-consuming. It sometimes costs money, but can also cost friends, reputations, and safety. It\u2019s not usually quick and easy and it\u2019s not usually comfortable.<\/p>\n

When I think of the un-sexy way of Jesus, I think of some of these people:<\/p>\n