Our neighborhood Facebook group recently debated the park pond problem. The back and forth went something like this: (Oh, a little caveat, our neighborhood isn\u2019t exactly BIG on polite and edited language \u2013 so I just **** the swears like a good Christian and you can just say them in your head because Jesus doesn\u2019t read minds\u2026 {insert eye-rolling})<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neighbor 1<\/strong>: What the f*** is wrong with the pond in the park? It stinks, it\u2019s ugly and looks like Shrek should live there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neighbor 2<\/strong>: I think the new zoo\/park president f***ed the whole place. It\u2019s his fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neighbor 3<\/strong>: What do you know about the president? He\u2019s a great guy and has done a lot of good for the zoo\/park.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[And then an argument ensued with about 10 more posts from an additional 10 neighbors and easily 20 more swears]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neighbor 4<\/strong>: I think it\u2019s a tax issue. We\u2019re being screwed. The pond in the park on the north side isn\u2019t covered in scum. They need to use some of our f***ing tax dollars to improve this side of town! We\u2019ve been effed by the city.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neighbor 5<\/strong>: You\u2019re a f***ing socialist. You want all the neighborhoods to look the same and be treated the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[And another argument ensued with more jabbing back and forth and more swears]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neighbor 6<\/strong>: I heard it was because of climate change. Something about f***ing with ecosystems and sh**.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neighbor 7<\/strong>: Are you f***ing serious??? Climate change is such a f***ing hoax from liars who just want to keep us scared and controlled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[And yet ANOTHER argument ensued \u2013 multiple posts, more swears, more name-calling, more hurt]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neighbor 8<\/strong>:  You know what? I have a kayak and an old swimming pool surface skimmer. I bet if 2 or 3 of us went over this afternoon with our kayaks and pool skimmers we could have that pond cleaned up in about an hour. Anyone with me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[Crickets\u2026]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Why I Want To Be Neighbor 8<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Despite our constant affinity for social media bickering, I think ONE thing we might all agree on right now is this: Our political climate is heated, toxic, and dangerous \u2013 perhaps the worst in America\u2019s history. It\u2019s certainly the worst of my lifetime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And, unless for some sick reason you enjoy fear, peril, and instability, I think we all long to have the bickering, back-biting and fear-mongering stop. We long for peace and unity and a country we can be proud of. We long for a time when both Democrats and Republicans and everyone in between can share thoughts, ideas, hopes and dreams in a civil way with a glass of wine and lots of grace. We long to be a country where diversity is not only tolerated, but even celebrated. That I would not mind if your opinions are very different from mine \u2013 because you and your opinions help make me be a better me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We long for November 3 to be done already so people will stop telling us how wrong we are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The thing is, from all that I\u2019ve seen and heard, the degree to which we attach importance of the presidential election seems to be inversely proportional to the degree of our involvement on the most pressing issues at stake. Another way to put it: those who are most likely to be vocal about the election to the point of demonizing \u201cthe other,\u201d seem to be the least engaged in solutions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Right now, I know many people who are: working to help the homeless, serving in underserved and underfunded schools, mentoring children and youth from troubled homes, praying for every person entering and leaving abortion clinics, serving at the local and state level of government where many of the decisions that directly affect us are made (like allocated abortion dollars \u2013 it\u2019s FAR MORE of a state-by-state issue than a NATIONAL government issue \u2013 please read THIS<\/a> if you believe the president has much say in abortion-related outcomes), serving those held in border control facilities by offering free medical care, working in Central America to decrease violence and expose and eliminate corruption so people won\u2019t feel compelled to flee, coordinating racial reconciliation groups in their neighborhoods, bringing donuts and notes of encouragement to their local police precincts, volunteering at local food banks, building homes for Habitat for Humanity \u2013 and so, so many others\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And you know what all these people have in common? They are too busy DOING the things that America desperately needs that they have no time to spend on social media or elsewhere complaining about the problems and arguing over which person in some lofty seat of over-emphasized importance will best fix them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They grabbed their kayaks and their pool skimmers and GOT BUSY!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this unbelievably polarized political environment, our little neighborhood \u201cpond-scum exchange\u201d serves as a powerful reminder that the number one way we can bring change to the world is NOT by – as many falsely believe – making sure you vote for the \u201cright\u201d candidate, but to actually<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BE THE CHANGE<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When we bought our sucky crack-house we thought the fantastic view of the zoo\/park across the street might possibly redeem the pitiful structure. However, the park struggles financially and some things have become a bit of an eyesore. All summer long our park pond has looked like this: Our neighborhood Facebook group recently debated the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,10,14,18,19,26,31,1],"tags":[40,53,62,96,103],"yoast_head":"\n