The Impressive White Wrap-Around Porch:<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n

I was thrilled when I was dreamed into life. Every component of the home knows there are two of us that carry the most weight and significance: the kitchen table \u2013 where our people gather to share, grow, and learn to love; and the front porch \u2013 where our people interact and love on the world around them.
Being an exceptionally beautiful, deep, wrap-around porch, I had some serious expectations from my family. Since they had four children, I envisioned them using me for playing games on summer evenings, for catching fireflies, for playing guitar and singing songs, and rocking their babies to sleep on my rocking chairs. But they never did any of those things.<\/p>\n

The Mrs. decorated me for every season and for every holiday. I was a stunner. She spared no expense. I didn’t mind – but it’s not what I was made for. It was like being all dressed up with nowhere to go. With each passing year, I hoped the family would slow down enough to enjoy me. I hoped they would see how vital it is to be out in the front of the home, to wave to cars passing by, to chat with the neighbors, and to just sit for a spell and enjoy each other. But they never did.<\/p>\n

My Mr. and Mrs. were busy people. Their cars flew up and down the driveway many, many times a day. I never understood what they were so busy chasing, but they were chasing something for sure. I thought the kids looked tired, but Mr. and Mrs. kept a fast pace nevertheless. I never knew where the kids were much of the time \u2013 but I often saw the Mr. and Mrs. working hard in their yard. They mowed that huge lawn every few days \u2013 hours and hours and hours of mowing. They were always vacuuming the pool, tending the landscaping, washing cars, waxing the boat, etc. The kids had four-wheelers, bikes, golf carts, motorcycles – basically anything they asked for. But to me, it just seemed like the more things they bought, the more they had to take care of and the less time they had to relax and enjoy me. I thought they\u2019d eventually exhaust themselves and sit on my rockers for a moment with a cold lemonade or beer. But they never did.<\/p>\n

My owners lived in my big white house for nine years and I don\u2019t ever remember them enjoying my beautiful view and just relaxing with me. Not ever. Not once.<\/p>\n

One day, an old college friend stopped by to see my Mr. and Mrs. Immediately upon exiting his car, he condescendingly said, \u201cWow, now that\u2019s an impressive home!\u201d The Mrs., completely oblivious to his patronizing tone, said, \u201cIt is pretty, isn\u2019t it?\u201d<\/p>\n

Suddenly I knew. She didn\u2019t get it. She never did. The Mrs. never wanted a big wrap-around porch like me for the vital role I\u2019m supposed to play in the home. She wanted me because I\u2019d be impressive. That, I suppose, I did fairly well, too.<\/h5>\n

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The Old Rickety Porch<\/strong><\/em>:<\/span><\/h4>\n

I am over a hundred years old and I am tired. I am sagging on one end and many of the brick pavers of my floor are missing. The siding around my front door is peeled back and flaps in the wind. But I do not care about any of that and I will not complain \u2013 because I am a porch and I am doing the thing I was created for! I am the bridge between the inside of the home and the world outside. My owners LOVE to spend time out on their porch rockers and watch the world \u2013 the multi-cultural, multi-ethnic world of the west side of Grand Rapids. It\u2019s like they\u2019ve never had a porch before \u2013 they can\u2019t get enough of me! Even though they\u2019re incredibly busy with careers and kids and aging parents and sickness and death, they come out here almost every evening, weather permitting.<\/p>\n

Being a porch, I am privy to many interesting conversations. My Mr. and Mrs. have chatted out here with people from all over the world, discussing everything from immigration to gun violence to Jesus to the best wine. They must have lived in different countries, too, because they also talk about how stubborn they must be that in order to truly understand that people are more important than things God had to yank them half-way around the globe. They talk about how they used to live compared to how they live now and how they\u2019ll never go back, even though they could easily afford it. I\u2019ve overheard their remorseful accounts of all the years they wasted mowing lawns, vacuuming pools, washing cars and cleaning boats. I don\u2019t know what they\u2019re talking about \u2013 because they don\u2019t do any of those things now.<\/p>\n

Their kids – the marrieds and the singles – love to hang out with me, too. Sometimes, they\u2019ll all reminisce about the \u201cold days\u201d when they had a great big wrap-around porch they never used. They\u2019re able to laugh about it now. I\u2019ve heard the Mr. and Mrs. thank God that their kids didn\u2019t give up on them. I\u2019ve heard them say how grateful they are to have learned before it was too late that spending time with their kids was more important than giving them stuff.<\/p>\n

As soon as the snow disappeared, my Mr. and Mrs. were back out on my rocking chairs. Some evenings, the laughter from the high-spirited rugby game in the park across the street beckons them outside (even though they clearly<\/em> cannot figure out rugby rules to save their lives). They love to talk to ALL the passersby – to pet the dogs, talk to the babies in strollers, or just offer a friendly “Hello – Have a great day!” They\u2019ve befriended the college kids up the street, the older, slower gentleman who collects empty pop cans so he can buy Legos, the politician on the corner, and the homeless guy on his bike. They love to sit out here and talk to other neighbors sitting out on their porches; and because our homes are so close, it’s like we’re one big block-long porch anyway.<\/p>\n

I’m thankful my Mr. and Mrs. get it. They understand the two most important parts of any home are the table for gathering the family to teach it how to grow in love; and the front porch, where the family extends that love to the world.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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