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LAM Archives - Cindy DeBoer https://cindydeboer.com/tag/lam/ Thu, 07 Apr 2022 17:07:20 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 https://i0.wp.com/cindydeboer.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/cindydeboericon.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 LAM Archives - Cindy DeBoer https://cindydeboer.com/tag/lam/ 32 32 184530663 Same Kind of Wounds as Me https://cindydeboer.com/2022/04/07/same-kind-of-wounds-as-me/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=same-kind-of-wounds-as-me https://cindydeboer.com/2022/04/07/same-kind-of-wounds-as-me/#comments Thu, 07 Apr 2022 17:07:13 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=4302 I noticed her and those tell-tale marks on her face from far across the room. At the first break of our writer’s conference, I ran over to her, breathless with anticipation. “Hey, I don’t mean to be weird or anything, but I notice that you have nasal cannula indentations on your cheeks, and I know […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2022/04/07/same-kind-of-wounds-as-me/feed/ 20 4302 Ode To A Lumpy Body https://cindydeboer.com/2022/02/18/ode-to-a-lumpy-body/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=ode-to-a-lumpy-body https://cindydeboer.com/2022/02/18/ode-to-a-lumpy-body/#comments Fri, 18 Feb 2022 16:33:30 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=4290 Hairy legs and sun-burnt nose When at the beach, anything goes. Unbrushed teeth and happy-hour drinks This much I know: my breath stinks. Fish for dinner plus a fruity potion Diet be damned, I'm at the ocean. Sand in my bed, and in my salt-fried hair, Sir, what is the time? Wait. Why do I […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2022/02/18/ode-to-a-lumpy-body/feed/ 16 4290 Invisibly Dying – A Lament For Those With Chronic Illness https://cindydeboer.com/2022/01/15/invisibly-dying-a-lament-for-those-with-chronic-illness/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=invisibly-dying-a-lament-for-those-with-chronic-illness https://cindydeboer.com/2022/01/15/invisibly-dying-a-lament-for-those-with-chronic-illness/#comments Sat, 15 Jan 2022 22:01:17 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=4275 Our ancient windows are no match for this stiff north wind. Our curtains tremble – just like me. Neighbors on both sides are sleeping. I know this for sure. These urban homes practically touch – holding hands across shared driveways - making daily routines no secret. But the rest of our quirky neighborhood will keep […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2022/01/15/invisibly-dying-a-lament-for-those-with-chronic-illness/feed/ 27 4275 Thanksgiving Eve Sucks https://cindydeboer.com/2021/11/25/thanksgiving-eve-sucks/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=thanksgiving-eve-sucks https://cindydeboer.com/2021/11/25/thanksgiving-eve-sucks/#comments Thu, 25 Nov 2021 04:34:08 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=4245 Sometimes holidays conjure up more pain and despair than joy and celebration. That’s true for me, anyway, on the day before Thanksgiving. It was 2013 and with the table set, the turkey stuffed, and pies complete, my husband and I spent the day before Thanksgiving driving to Ann Arbor to meet with a pulmonology specialist. […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2021/11/25/thanksgiving-eve-sucks/feed/ 33 4245 When Is It Time To Let Me Die? https://cindydeboer.com/2020/05/07/when-is-it-time-to-let-me-die/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=when-is-it-time-to-let-me-die https://cindydeboer.com/2020/05/07/when-is-it-time-to-let-me-die/#comments Thu, 07 May 2020 18:51:59 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=3144 My doctor is very clear, if I get CVD-19, it will not go well for me. My stupid lung-sucking disease puts me in the small minority of the population for whom the rest of you are being quarantined. Perhaps you’re experiencing some of the same vacillating opinions as me where one day (maybe even one […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2020/05/07/when-is-it-time-to-let-me-die/feed/ 26 3144 I AM OUT OF CONTROL https://cindydeboer.com/2020/03/22/i-am-out-of-control/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=i-am-out-of-control https://cindydeboer.com/2020/03/22/i-am-out-of-control/#comments Sun, 22 Mar 2020 20:48:59 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=2768 When we lived in Morocco, every single day felt like a monumental challenge. It certainly wasn’t because of the people (they were incredibly kind, generous and welcoming). The challenge primarily came from being so out of place – so keenly aware we were foreigners and didn’t have much sense on how to navigate an alien […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2020/03/22/i-am-out-of-control/feed/ 11 2768 Don't Listen To Me – Go With Steve! https://cindydeboer.com/2019/09/26/dont-listen-to-me-go-with-steve/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=dont-listen-to-me-go-with-steve https://cindydeboer.com/2019/09/26/dont-listen-to-me-go-with-steve/#comments Thu, 26 Sep 2019 05:36:14 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=1582 Today, I planned to share how shitty I feel. I planned to rant about my lung disease and how unfair it is that as a non-smoker I’m suffering from something totally similar to COPD. I planned to curse a lot and tell you what it’s like to have a disease no one can outwardly see. […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2019/09/26/dont-listen-to-me-go-with-steve/feed/ 5 1582 Six Critical Life Lessons Learned from a Hacker https://cindydeboer.com/2019/05/09/six-critical-life-lessons-learned-from-a-hacker/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=six-critical-life-lessons-learned-from-a-hacker https://cindydeboer.com/2019/05/09/six-critical-life-lessons-learned-from-a-hacker/#comments Thu, 09 May 2019 16:53:34 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=1176 I was furiously typing away – hoping to complete another chapter of my book in the two hours I’d managed to wrangle free. Suddenly, a warning popped up on my screen, “CAUTION! You have a virus attacking your computer! Stop immediately and call Apple: 555-5555” (the title of this blog should let you know why […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2019/05/09/six-critical-life-lessons-learned-from-a-hacker/feed/ 5 1176 On Dying Slowly https://cindydeboer.com/2019/04/25/on-dying-slowly/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=on-dying-slowly https://cindydeboer.com/2019/04/25/on-dying-slowly/#comments Thu, 25 Apr 2019 15:44:28 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=1146 One of the lowest, crappiest things well-intentioned people say to you when they find out you have a terminal illness is this: “Well, you know, we’re all dying really.” Of course we are. Nobody believes these bodies will last forever. But sometimes it just stinks to be me because someone gave me a TIME LINE. […]

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]]> https://cindydeboer.com/2019/04/25/on-dying-slowly/feed/ 12 1146 The Worst Houseguest Ever (and how to get rid of her) https://cindydeboer.com/2019/03/14/the-worst-houseguest-ever-and-how-to-get-rid-of-her/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-worst-houseguest-ever-and-how-to-get-rid-of-her https://cindydeboer.com/2019/03/14/the-worst-houseguest-ever-and-how-to-get-rid-of-her/#comments Thu, 14 Mar 2019 18:19:26 +0000 https://cindydeboer.com/?p=1024 We’ve had the worst houseguest all winter. In fact, I’ve never despised anyone more. It’s bad enough she showed up unannounced – but now she hangs out in the WORST possible places, and REFUSES to leave! I’ve been downright rude to her and I’m always telling everyone how much I hate her, even when she […]

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